Round 2, ding ding.(First post updated, read the rest of the story.)

Deanna and I keep fighting.
Tonight was no different.
She calls me, "why are you acting like this?" Referring back to earlier when I asked her why she keeps avoiding me and shit.
Her friend said after a bit, "your friends were here first, he came second, we should come first."
I asked her if she really cared about me, and she said yes.
I constantly ask her to hang out, just her and I alone, I mean, not all the time, I'm not asking for her to give me every minute of her life, but give me some attention dammit!
She said she's always with her friends no matter what, I really think I should've said, "I'm your boyFRIEND, am I any different?" Hinting I'm her friend too, but we're a couple, ya know?

At this point I walked through the hallway, passing my parents bedroom door, I punched the door as hard as I could, my middle and index fingers are messed up a bit, no worry.

My anger subsided and transformed into sadness, all I want is to spend time with her, to be able to cuddle with her alone and have no interruptions.

I asked her, "What about this weekend? I wanna go see a movie with you alone, do I have to fucking pay for your friend too?"
She stuttered a bit, "Wha- wha-....I don't fucking know!"

Her friend said, "I think you guys need a break."
My anger returned, "What the fuck is a break going to do? This needs to be fixed now, time isn't going to do shit." That shut her up, I hate when people come into arguments, it's like a snowball effect, after a while, everyone is involved(World war 1 anyone?)

Everything cooled down a bit, I told her in a calm voice, "Look, I really love you Deanna, I'd give anything to make this work out, we need to talk about our problems and talk this stuff out."

"I don't like talking about my problems," she said.

"If you truly love me, you'll try and work this out with me."

At this time the phone she was using was starting to die, we said our goodnights and hung our phones up.

I don't know if I can handle fighting with her like this all the time.

LATER THAT NIGHT(Adding this now.)
So I got invited to the concert(Emarosa!) and decided to go, Deanna was going so yeah.
We got there and I saw Deanna, I ran into the building without paying to get to her, and I playful pushed her to get her attention, and she flipped on me, "DON'T FUCKING HIT ME!" She yelled.

I gave her a hug and kiss, and walked away to see who was there.

I was standing around with my friend Justin, and I was talking to him for a while, and my friend Danielle got there. I ended up talking to Danielle for a while, I spilled my feelings to her about all of this and told her about last night. Her reaction, "Steven, break up with her."

I told Justin and Amanda(Justin's girlfriend I believe), they gave me the same reaction.

After a while she walked past me without saying anything to me, one time out of 6 or 7 she stopped to kiss me, and that was it.

During the second to last band I pulled her back to near the bar, and told her straight up, "Either you fucking spend more time with me, or we break up." She replied, "I'm not going to fucking promise that I'm going to spend my time with you." So I told her it was over, and she walked away pissed, hah, bitch.

Emarosa came on, and I kept trying to grab onto Jonny Craig, which I grabbed onto his hand and shirt too, gah, so fun ;D.

But yeah. I'm single now, happier, and I have my dignity back.

Last but not least, FUCK YOU.

I swear Steben, you love life could be a muti-million dollar hit.

Steben do u right books? If no start now!

HNTPG wrote:

Steben do u right books? If no start now!

I explain things in book format, I like to tell stories.

Lol. Have you explained it to her as you have explained it on this forum? She sounds like a girl I know... and if she is like the girl I know then she won't admit that she is in the wrong in any way... amirite?

OMFGCONNOR wrote:

Lol. Have you explained it to her as you have explained it on this forum? She sounds like a girl I know... and if she is like the girl I know then she won't admit that she is in the wrong in any way... amirite?

She gets pissed when I show that she's wrong, because 95% of the time, she is.
And I've explained it to her better than I did here.

Okay... people like that can be very hard to deal with. Is there possibly someone close to her that you could ask to talk to her?

Updated >___>

Sorry?

OMFGCONNOR wrote:

Sorry?

I updated the first post.

Ive had something similar happen except it was with my dad :(

She sounds like she didn't even care for you, yet didn't want to admit it. I'm sorry that happened.

HNTPG wrote:

Steben do u right books? If no start now!

dude i agree i was tearing

in b4 a movie is made about this.

Honestly, why the fuck bump this? 6 months without a post, why today? Fuck.